Have you received bad news? That’s probably a silly question. If you’ve lived long enough, you can likely testify to disappointing or devastating news you, a friend, or family member has received. Jesus told us that in this life we would have trouble, but when we find ourselves in deep waters repeatedly, it’s easy to wonder if we’re going to make it to the shore this time.
The other day we received bad news. For the next few hours, I felt so heavy. My husband has cancer reverberated in my head. Before I went to sleep that night, I asked the Lord for strength. I knew I’d need an abundant supply to help Joel wrestle with his diagnosis. As soon as I woke up the next morning I felt a new hope— a strength that I can only attribute to answered prayer.
My husband is a fixer. When something breaks, he fixes it. And if he doesn’t know how, he’ll educate himself, and then voilà! It’s suddenly like new. But he admitted, “This is something I can’t fix or control.” We can do things to help fight the cancer, but what else, Lord?
While praying, the Lord reminded me of the many obstacles the Israelites faced getting to the promised land, including the roaring Jordan River (Joshua 3-4). We’ll have our own deep river to cross to make it to the other side of cancer.
“Now the Jordan is at flood stage all during harvest. Yet as soon as the priests who carried the ark reached the Jordan and their feet touched the water’s edge, the water from upstream stopped flowing (Joshua 3:15-16).
I don’t know what rushing rivers you need to cross today or the waters the Lord held back for you in the past. I’m encouraged when I remember the many times God showed up for me and did the impossible. This story eases my anxiety when facing a raging river I can’t cross unless God intervenes.
The day before God held up the Jordan River, Joshua tells the people, “Consecrate yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will do amazing things among you” (Joshua 3:5). Although God parted the waters before, the Israelites have a track record of forgetting the mighty ways God acted on their behalf, including God’s rescue plan at the Red Sea as Pharoah’s army cornered the generation before. I often forget too. Essentially Joshua is saying, obey what God is telling you and watch the wild thing God is about to do to deliver you again.
I need to start acting today like I believe God will do something tomorrow.
The waters rushed back into place after they crossed the Jordan on dry ground. Joshua later asked each tribe to set up a stone at Gilgal near where they crossed the river to memorialize God’s miraculous act. It was a visual reminder for them, their children, future descendants, and all the people of the earth to trust the Lord continuously (Joshua 4:21-24).
God longs for us to remember His mighty acts in our lives because it increases our faith and gives hope to those who hear our stories. Maybe you are facing a deep, rushing river right now that seems impossible to cross, and you don’t see any signs of the Lord ceasing the flow so you can reach the other side. I have felt that way too.
Many years after the Israelites entered the promised land, a prophet named Habakkuk conversed with God. They discussed the rebellious state of God’s chosen people, specifically the Southern Kingdom (Judah), and how God planned to deal with it. Habakkuk heard bad news.
The ruthless Babylonians would soon take the Israelites captive as a consequence for their disobedience. This article isn’t about God’s judgement. Faithful followers, and the rebellious alike, experience devastating news. This is about our response when faced with unexpected, and often impossible, circumstances, whether it’s a result of our own sin or not. We can learn so much from the conversation between God and His prophet, Habakkuk.
Habakkuk complains to the Lord, and not just once. I’m grateful God can handle our questions and grievances. Habakkuk models for us what to do after we rant. I carefully chose that word because that’s exactly how I picture Habakkuk talking to God at the beginning of chapter one. And I have ranted to the Lord a few times myself, and sometimes His responses completely humbled me. Habakkuk goes through a process of submission and understanding as he dialogues with his sovereign Lord.
“I will take my stand at my watch post and station myself on the tower, and look out to see what he will say to me, and what I will answer concerning my complaint” (Habakkuk 2:1).
God answers and tells Habakkuk the good news and the bad news. He tells him to write down the revelation so it will be so obvious when it comes to pass. God then tells Habakkuk that “the righteous will live by his faith,” the main theme of the entire book (Habakkuk 2:4).
After God’s reply, Habakkuk prays and recounts many mighty acts of God, His faithful deliverance, and His unchanging character. Habakkuk’s faith grows as he reminisces about the great things God has done and the promise of future redemption. He knows he can rest in God’s sovereignty even under such fearful circumstances. Then Habakkuk asked God for His mercy throughout their captivity. This is what Habakkuk taught me in His conversation with God:
Talk to God. He can handle my complaint.
Stand at my watch; position myself spiritually to receive what God says.
Listen intently to His instructions and step out in obedience.
Write it down as a reminder for those days I need encouragement.
Live by faith, believing with hope that God will act on my behalf.
Leave the results to Him. God’s process and timing may not be exactly what I anticipate.
Ask God continuously for His mercy in my life in the middle of my trial.
Habakkuk does something that is often difficult for us: He praises God regardless of the catastrophic news and believes Him for the deliverance to come.
“Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails, and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will be joyful in God my Savior. The Sovereign Lord is my strength; he makes my feet like the feet of a deer” (Habakkuk 3:17-19).
How will you believe God in the empty and unknown places?
Friend, through it all, God will increase your faith to climb even the steepest and rockiest mountains. He accompanies you on your climb. He is faithful to keep you safe and bring you to the other side. This diagnosis may have us captive right now, just like the Israelites were captive to their enemy for a time. But we will persevere in faith until Joel is liberated from cancer.
If you and I were sitting on my porch together having this conversation, we’d have our coffee, and you’d see a basket of stones and markers on the table in front of us. We’d talk about the times God parted the waters for us in the past. I’d ask you about the rushing river you need to cross today.
How is the Lord asking you to dip your toes in the rushing water of your current circumstances? What act of belief do you need to take before God dries up your path to cross the river, climb the steepest mountain, or rest in His arms as you wait? What does it look like for you in your situation to consecrate yourself, stand at your watch, ask, listen, and live by faith?
We can be encouraged within the difficulties of today because of the way God showed up for us yesterday. It’s time to remember.
David said, “I remember the days of long ago; I meditate on all your works and consider what your hands have done” (Psalm 143:5).
Imagine you and I really are on my porch together, and I hand you a stone and marker. Write one word on your rock representing a time when God came through for you. Think back to that time, remembering the desperation and uncertainty. Then ponder His rescue and deliverance. What’s your word?
Now choose another word that represents what you are believing God for currently. Write that word on your stone. Set your stone in a place you pass by often as a memorial of the mighty ways God has shown himself to be strong on your behalf and how He will do it again. When people ask what your stone means, your testimony of God’s faithfulness and power will encourage their faith too.
Joel chose “mend” and “grace” for his two words. I chose “healer” and “faithful.” If you’d like to do the same and write your words on a stone, I’d love to hear your story and the words you chose. As always, I will email you back and faithfully pray for you. It is my joy to encourage you on your faith journey as you cross your next river.
I am so proud of you and your writing, so thankful for your help and encouragement as we deal with this news, and so overwhelmed with the prayer support during this. I love you.
So sweet! We’re going to get through this with the Lord! I’m remembering all the times He carried us to the other side of our trials before. He is so so faithful!
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Jonathan, what a beautiful thing to be grateful for and hope for your child. God created us to be in relationship with Him and others. I’m praying right now that the Lord blesses your kid with a godly friendship that is deep and lasting! Thanks for sharing!
Praying for you 2 Joel! When and where is your surgery and how can Julie and I help you guys in addition to prayer?
Would love to talk if that would help but know we’re available…..it’s hard for me to ask for help but He reminds me not to deprive others of a blessing when they offer!
Love you Joel ❤️
Thank you so much, Noel! We’ll definitely keep you updated as soon as we know when his surgery has been scheduled.
So beautiful! Thank you for letting us in to see the wondrous things God is going to do in your family’s journey! I am believing along with you for God’s healing, grace and faithfulness.
The words on my rocks-peace and courage and I think I’ll use a third rock to add belief! Those things are monuments for my life’s journey and I’m adding them to my prayers for your journey too!
Suzanne, those a three big ones for sure! Peace, courage, and belief! Thank you for praying those over us!
This is so beautiful, we all need this.
Thank you so much for pouring yourself into this newsletter.
Thank you sweet Lori! 🙏🏻
This was the perfect devotional for me this morning! What a beautiful reminder that we can be encouraged in the difficult seasons of today because of the way God showed up yesterday. Thank you for the reminder to take time to actively remember God’s faithfulness through the years to encourage us in the journey. I love the stone idea too…such a creative way to remember! Thank you for your ministry!
Gina, I’m so grateful this encouraged you! I know you have many memories of the Lord getting you and your family to the other side of the river! 💕
God Is definitely in your heart, mind and soul when you send out encouragement Lenette♥️
Thank you for including me in your letters, I love you♥️
Lauri, I’m so glad this encouraged you! God is faithful and we can count on Him each day. I know you do! And I know you are praying for us too! 🙏🏻
Lenette, thank you for this beautiful article. What a wonderful reading to start the day.
Dianne, thank you! Praying you’re encouraged for days to come. What two words would you choose for your rock?
Lenette, We are all praying for Joel. What ever you need please let me know.
This is beautiful! Just this last week the Lord had me in this same passage of Scripture! There is so much power in REMEMBERING who He is and what He has done! I’m so thankful He never changes! We are praying for Joel and for your family!
Thank you so much, Tammy! We are grateful for your prayers!
I will be praying for Joel, and for you and your family, Lenette. God is always working.
So grateful for your prayers, Debra! Yes, I believe God is at work!
I am thankful that even in the most difficult times God is faithful and knows our words even when we can not form them. Praying for your journey.
Thank you so much, Tracy! So so true!
Praying for you & Joel. My two words are faithful & good. God has revealed He still is in the miracle business. I, personally, am in the fight. Diagnosed on November 18, 2022, with Ovarian cancer, stage IV. My husband, Dub, & I decided in these first days, we would share with our church & prayer warriors. While I didn’t want people treating me differently or feeling awkward…we asked our great God to hear the prayers of the saints. Throughout my chemo, surgeries and recovery, God has provided and has been faithful. After 8 months, there is no sign of illness, praise God. While the doctors say I’m not cured, I believe He has chosen to do just that. This week just started taking a maintenance drug, which it’s purpose is to keep the cancer away. Early on a dear friend gave me Psalm 103:1-5: Praise the Lord, my soul! All my being, praise His holy name! Praise the Lord, my soul, and do not forget how kind He is! He forgives all my sins and heals all my diseases! He keeps me from the grave and blesses me with love and mercy. He fills my life with good things, so that I stay young and strong like an eagle.
I pray that during this journey…whatever comes…stay strong in the Lord…relish each day, as a true gift and do not fear. God has already won …He never leaves you…He is right with you & Joel. Praying for complete healing & restoration of health for Joel for the glory of His great name!!! ❤️
Sue Ann, thank you so much for your pray and encouragement! And thank you for sharing about your own journey too. Now I’m praying for you and believing with you that you have been healed. You are a precious woman of God. Grateful our paths keep crossing for over 22 years now!